Tuesday 17 December 2013

Get a bikini, put it on your body


With the holiday season in full swing, the weather hot, and the beach calling our names, there's a lot to consider when it comes to our bodies. There's overindulging at Christmas time (pretty much my favourite part of the holiday season) and the subsequent guilt and body hatred that might ensue (something I've liberated myself from).

I despise the term 'beach ready' in relation to bodies and so when I saw a cartoon recently about getting a bikini body in one easy step, I was thrilled. Instead of the usual rubbish around getting a 'bikini body' that hits women's magazines after winter (diets involving canned tuna and smoothies, doing ab routines with a bag of flour in your home, etc) this simply said 'get a bikini, put it on your body'.

I love the idea of summer that we're sold on ads and in the shops, of carefree sunny days at the beach. But the reality is there has been times in the past that the thought of going to the beach with friends terrified me.Whether it is the school girl costume fashion school girl cheap French maid costume they are certainly going to make some heads turn. I filled with dread at the thought of having to wear togs. I worried about what people would think,The early primordial panties design consisted of a divided garment intended to Cheap fashion Gold Iron Chain Belt Bikini Set on sale up the nether regions of a woman. and I know it's not an uncommon thought. Society is constantly telling us we can't be in a swimsuit unless we have a body worthy of swimwear. Let me tell you this: every body is a body worthy of swimwear.

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I overheard a girl in a clothing store fitting room recently who was trying on dresses for an occasion, but declared she couldn't wear a certain number because of her knees. Her knees. She hated her knees. Imagine spending your life in that turmoil of hatred? There's a thin line between love and hate, and here I'm going to pose something radical. What if we turned that hate into love?

I'm all for dressing for your shape, and dressing for yourself, and wearing whatever makes you feel good. Confidence is pretty much the sexiest thing anyone can wear, so if you do hate your knees, by all means wear a maxi skirt. But don't feel like you have to cover them up for anyone. If you would be cooler in shorts because it's sweltering outside, embrace your knees and everything you once hated about them and find some shorts you like. Go shopping! Love your knees!

What if we all completely liberated ourselves from hating our bodies? Stopped obsessing over scales, stopped constantly comparing ourselves to others. Comparison is the thief of joy, and who do we think we are to do that to ourselves and make ourselves so goddamn miserable? Isn't one of the greatest things about life that we're all so different?

We should still do what makes us feel good. There's nothing like that feeling of euphoria you get when you make it to the end of a spin class without vomiting. Likewise,Lipstick can provide your outfit as well as your come throughout to life however as well cheap bodystocking much caked on lipstick will ruin your look. I've got a healthy addiction to lipstick, and don't really like living without mascara. I'm not saying we shouldn't care about how we look, I'm just saying we should think about liberating ourselves from hating the negatives.

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